Happy AF

Welcome to the companion webpage for Happy AF (and Flourishing), my newest book. Happy AF is finally available here!

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About the Book

Happy AF (And Flourishing) is a practical, science-backed guide to feeling better—one small step at a time.

Happy AF (And Flourishing) makes a meaningful gift for healthcare workers, including therapists, counselors, nurses, social workers, and other behavioral health professionals. Designed for people who support others for a living, it offers small, science-backed wellbeing practices without pressure or toxic positivity—making it an ideal self-care gift for mental healthcare professionals and educators.

Rather than long chapters or abstract theory, this book offers 365 bite-sized happiness practices, each designed to be doable in real life, even on difficult days. Grounded in positive psychology, cognitive-behavioral principles, and neuroscience, each entry invites a simple shift in awareness, behavior, or perspective—paired with optional reflections and occasional micro-challenges for deeper engagement.

This isn’t a book about forcing positivity or pretending life is easy. It’s about building sustainable habits that support wellbeing, resilience, meaning, and growth over time. Readers can move through the book day by day or jump in anywhere—using what helps and skipping what doesn’t.

Whether you’re feeling stuck, burned out, or simply looking for more moments of joy and clarity, Happy AF (And Flourishing) meets you where you are and helps you move forward—without pressure, guilt, or overwhelm.

This page was created to support—and extend—your experience with the book. While Happy AF (And Flourishing) is designed to be fully usable on its own, this companion space offers additional depth, resources, and flexibility for readers who want to go a little further.

Inside the book, you’ll find 365 bite-sized, science-backed happiness practices—no long chapters, no overwhelm, no pressure to “fix” yourself. Each day focuses on a small, doable shift that fits into real life, even on hard days. This companion page brings those practices to life with supplemental content, optional reading, and curated resources that deepen understanding without making things heavy.

Here, you may find:

  • Expanded explanations of key concepts and psychological frameworks referenced in the book
  • Links to reputable articles, quizzes, and research-backed tools
  • Optional reflections and extensions for readers who want more context or structure
  • Resources that therapists, educators, and helpers can use personally or professionally

You don’t need to do everything. You don’t need to read every link. This page—like the book—is meant to meet you where you are. Some days, that might mean skimming. Other days, you might dive deeper. Both count.

Happy AF (And Flourishing) isn’t about forced positivity or pretending life is easy. It’s about building small, sustainable habits that support wellbeing, resilience, meaning, and growth—one day at a time. This companion page exists to support that process, not complicate it.

Use what helps. Skip what doesn’t. Come back whenever you need a reset.

Tools & Downloads

Free Sample Pages

Create Your Own Happiness Practice Worksheet

The Create-Your-Own Happiness pages give you space to design practices that fit your life, values, and needs. Use these pages when a prompt in the book sparks a new idea, when you want to personalize a practice, or when none of the day’s suggestions feel quite right. These pages are meant to encourage creativity, autonomy, and flexibility—because sustainable happiness looks different for everyone.

The Everyday Happiness Inventory

The Everyday Happiness Inventory is a brief self-assessment designed to help you understand your current level of everyday wellbeing. You can use it as a baseline measure before starting the book, and then return to it periodically to notice patterns, shifts, and progress over time. There are no right or wrong scores—this tool is simply a way to increase awareness and track change as you engage with the practices in Happy AF (And Flourishing).

Helpful Articles


For the New Year, Try Imagining Your Best Possible Life

18 Effective Thought-Stopping Techniques

How to Let Go of Negative Thoughts: 4 Steps

How Office Gossip About Coworkers Can Create a Toxic Work Culture

How to Improve Communication Skills

Exercises for Non-judgmental Thinking

Why Everyone Should Deeply Understand Their Strengths

Nature and Human Well-being: The Olfactory Pathway

Stumped by a Problem? This Technique Unsticks You

The Science of Slowing Down

Learn About Procrastination

7 Advanced Gratitude Tips

The Mental Health Benefits of Simple Acts of Kindness

How We Determine Who’s to Blame

Giving Thanks at Work: The Science and Power of Recognition

The Science of Generosity

The Self-Care Wheel: Wellness Worksheets, Activities & PDF

Small Talk Not as Bad as Previously Thought

Positive Self-Talk: How Talking to Yourself Is a Good Thing

The Warm Glow of Kindness Is Real, Even When There’s Nothing In It for You

How to Be More Compassionate: 6 Tips

Should You Hug Yourself More?

Yes, You Can (and Should) Give Yourself a Hug

Cultivating Self-Compassion

The Importance of Taking the Perspective of Others

Six Surprising Benefits of Curiosity

How Curiosity Changes the Brain to Enhance Learning

Daily Stretching Routine for Better Flexibility and Mobility

Manage Stress: Strengthen Your Support Network

What Is the Negativity Bias?

Healthy Ways to Celebrate Success

How Cuddly Comfort Objects May Help Adults with Anxiety

Recommended Websites & Online Resources

Action for Happiness

Authentic Happiness

Center for Health and Happiness

Center for Healthy Minds

Character Lab

Dr. Rick Hanson

Ed Diener

Feeling Good

Greater Good Science Center

Gretchen Rubin

The Happiness Trap

International Positive Psychology Association (IPPA)

Mindfulness Exercises

Mind Remake Project

A Meaning of Life

National Resilience Resource Center

Positive Emotions and Psychophysiology (PEP) Laboratory

Positive Psychology

Positive Psychology Center

Project Happiness

The Pursuit of Happiness

Self-Compassion Institute

VIA Institute on Character

Further Reading

Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones (2018) by James Clear

Daring Greatly: How the Courage to be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent and Lead (2012) by Brené Brown

Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ (1995) by Daniel Goleman

Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being (2013) by Martin E. P. Seligman

The High 5 Habit: Take Control of Your Life with One Simple Habit (2023) by Mel Robbins

The Let Them Theory (2024) by Mel Robbins

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success (2006) by Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D.

The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business (2012) by Charles Duhigg

Why We Sleep: The New Science of Sleep and Dreams (2017) by Matthew Walker

You Owe You (2022) by Eric Thomas, Ph.D.