Alcohol in Your Brain & Body

What is alcohol? Alcohol is a small, simple molecule that moves quickly through almost every part of the body once it’s consumed. Shortly after consumption, alcohol levels increase in the brain, and signs of intoxication follow.

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Your Brain on Alcohol

Alcohol slows brain activity by increasing the effects of GABA, the brain’s primary inhibitory neurotransmitter, while reducing glutamate, its main excitatory signal.

Glutamate helps activate the brain, while GABA helps calm it down.The two work together to keep brain activity balanced. When excitatory signals become too strong, inhibitory signals help bring things back under control.

Alcohol disrupts this balance by enhancing the calming effects and dampening the activating ones, which is why thinking, coordination, and reaction time are affected.

This combination can impair prefrontal cortex function within minutes of drinking. The prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain responsible for judgment, self-control, and decision-making—is especially affected by alcohol. As alcohol increases calming signals in this area, it essentially quiets the brain’s control center, which is why people often make choices while drinking that they wouldn’t make sober.

At the same time, alcohol overstimulates the brain’s reward system, flooding it with dopamine, reinforcing the urge to keep drinking. Over time, this makes everyday pleasures feel less satisfying by comparison.

Synapse showing presynaptic terminal releasing neurotransmitters into synaptic cleft to receptors on postsynaptic neuron

The brain uses chemicals called neuromodulators. Unlike neurotransmitters, which send direct signals, neuromodulators adjust how those signals work—amplifying or dampening activity across larger brain systems.

Alcohol doesn’t just affect one pathway. It interacts with multiple systems at once, including those involved in mood, reward, stress, and relaxation. That’s part of what makes it so powerful—and so appealing.

Depending on the person and the moment, alcohol can feel like it’s doing different things: energizing you, calming you down, easing anxiety, or even changing how you perceive other people (including their attractiveness).

It’s also poison.

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It can feel like more than one effect at once. But it’s still one substance acting on multiple systems in the brain.

Although alcohol is classified as a central nervous system depressant, it can feel stimulating at lower doses. Early effects may include increased heart rate and a sense of energy or alertness as inhibitory controls are reduced.

As it is absorbed and enters the brain, alcohol slows the central nervous system, which can feel like reduced anxiety, a lift in mood, and fewer inhibitions. At higher levels, alcohol leads to intoxication—slowed movement, poor coordination, slurred speech, and in extreme cases, stupor or coma. Alcohol disrupts how the brain communicates with itself.

Alcohol also affects the cerebellum, the part of the brain responsible for balance and coordination. Even small amounts can lead to slurred speech, blurred vision, slower reaction times, and impaired hand-eye coordination, increasing the risk of accidents and injury. It affects areas responsible for balance, memory, speech, and judgment, which is why injuries and poor decisions become more likely.

Over time, heavy drinking can actually change the brain, including shrinking the size of its cells. Chronic alcohol use is associated with reduced volume in the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus, compromising neural systems involved in executive functioning, impulse regulation, and memory consolidation.

Alcohol-related changes in the prefrontal cortex can worsen difficulties with stress regulation and emotional processing. Gradually, these changes may show up as patterns of behavior that are often mistaken for personality traits rather than effects on the brain.

Eventually, heavy drinking can physically change the brain, especially in areas responsible for judgment and memory. Brain scans show reduced gray matter in these regions, and the longer and heavier the drinking, the more pronounced the damage tends to be.

The hippocampus is affected in much the same way. This part of the brain helps turn experiences into long-term memories and supports navigation. With long-term alcohol use, it can shrink, making memory and learning more difficult.

Blackouts

Alcohol doesn’t just slow the brain down—it interferes with memory and learning. Glutamate helps the brain form new connections and store memories. When alcohol suppresses it, the brain has a harder time learning from what’s happening in the moment.

Alcohol-related memory gaps, or “blackouts” are not simply instances of forgetting, but periods in which memory encoding is disrupted. During these times, hippocampal functioning is impaired, preventing the formation of new memories. This is why individuals may recall part of an interaction but have no memory of how it concluded.

Alcohol in Your Body

Alcohol begins entering the bloodstream almost immediately. A small amount is absorbed through the mouth and esophagus, with additional absorption occurring in the stomach. From there, it moves into the bloodstream, where blood alcohol concentration (BAC) is measured.

Cross-section of blood vessels showing red blood cells and vessel walls

BAC is expressed as a percentage. A BAC of 0.10% means there is one part alcohol for every 1,000 parts of blood.

Several factors influence how quickly BAC rises and how strongly alcohol affects you.

Body size plays a role. The more you weigh, the greater your blood volume, which can dilute alcohol and slow the rise in BAC. Body composition matters as well. Alcohol dissolves more easily in water than in fat, so individuals with a higher percentage of body fat tend to reach higher BAC levels more quickly.

Age also has an impact. As the body ages, alcohol is metabolized more slowly, which can lead to higher levels of alcohol remaining in the bloodstream. Physical health is another factor. Conditions that affect digestion can increase how quickly alcohol is absorbed.

What you eat—and what you mix alcohol with—matters. Food slows things down, keeping alcohol in the stomach longer so it enters the bloodstream more gradually. Carbonated drinks do the opposite. They speed up how quickly alcohol moves into the small intestine, where it’s absorbed faster, leading to a quicker and stronger effect.

Your emotional state even influences how alcohol affects you. When you’re acutely stressed, anxious, or fearful, the body shifts into a fight-or-flight response. Blood flow is redirected away from the digestive system, which can slow alcohol absorption. Chronic stress, however, has a different effect. Over time, it can disrupt digestive functioning, which may lead to faster absorption and stronger effects.

Gender differences also play a significant role in how alcohol is processed. Women don’t process alcohol as well, leading to increased health risks.

Alcohol is eliminated through the liver. A healthy liver can process approximately 0.5 ounces of pure alcohol per hour, which is about one drink (12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of liquor). The rest of the alcohol circulates through your bloodstream until the liver is ready to process it.

The liver breaks down alcohol through different pathways.

Most of the alcohol you drink is metabolized through the alcohol dehydrogenase (ADH) pathway, which occurs primarily in the liver and involves two main steps.

First, alcohol is converted into acetaldehyde by the enzyme alcohol dehydrogenase (ADH), with the help of NAD⁺ (nicotinamide adenine dinucleotide), a coenzyme derived from B vitamins. During this step, hydrogen atoms are removed from the alcohol molecule, forming acetaldehyde—a highly toxic compound that contributes to many of alcohol’s harmful effects.

Next, acetaldehyde is rapidly converted into acetate by another enzyme, aldehyde dehydrogenase (ALDH). This step also uses NAD⁺ and helps reduce the buildup of acetaldehyde in the body.

Acetate is then further broken down into carbon dioxide and water. Unlike the earlier steps, this final stage can occur in many tissues throughout the body, not just in the liver.

NAD⁺ plays a critical role in both steps of alcohol metabolism. As alcohol is processed, NAD⁺ is converted into NADH. When NADH accumulates, it disrupts the body’s normal metabolic balance. This shift can contribute to low blood sugar, increased fat production in the liver, and elevated uric acid levels, which may increase the risk of conditions like gout.

Although the MEOS (microsomal ethanol oxidizing system) is considered a secondary pathway for metabolizing alcohol, it becomes increasingly important with repeated or heavy drinking.

Unlike the primary pathway, the MEOS system becomes more active over time. As it ramps up, the body is able to break down alcohol more quickly. This contributes to tolerance, meaning a person can drink more and feel less of the effects.

This can be misleading. It may feel like the body is “handling alcohol better,” when in reality, it’s adapting in a way that often leads to increased consumption and greater long-term harm.

The MEOS pathway also produces toxic byproducts and places additional stress on the liver, which helps explain why heavy drinking can accelerate physical damage even as subjective effects seem to decrease.

Alcohol Poisoning

Alcohol poisoning or overdose happens when there’s so much alcohol in the bloodstream that the brain starts to shut down the systems that keep you alive—breathing, heart rate, and body temperature.

Signs include confusion, trouble staying awake, vomiting, seizures, slow or irregular breathing, a slow pulse, cold or clammy skin, and a loss of the gag reflex, which increases the risk of choking. Body temperature can also drop dangerously low.

This is a medical emergency. Without immediate help, alcohol overdose can cause permanent brain damage or death.

Paramedics attending to an injured man on a stretcher on a city street with ambulance and police car nearby

Higher blood alcohol concentration (BAC) levels are associated with more severe effects.

At 0.20–0.29%, people may experience confusion, vomiting, and blackouts.
At 0.30–0.39%, there is a high risk of unconsciousness and dangerously slowed or suppressed breathing.
At 0.40% and above, the risk of death becomes extremely high due to respiratory failure.

Conclusion

Alcohol is often marketed as a way to relax, celebrate, connect, or escape, but beneath those experiences is a drug that profoundly alters the brain and body. Its effects can feel pleasant in the moment, which is precisely why it can be so difficult to recognize the harm it causes.

Understanding how alcohol works is not about fear or judgment. It’s about clarity. The more we understand what alcohol actually does—from disrupting memory and decision-making to reshaping the brain over time—the better equipped we are to make informed choices about our relationship with it. Whether you drink occasionally, struggle with alcohol, or are simply curious, knowledge provides a foundation for understanding both the appeal of alcohol and the risks that often accompany it.


References

Ketcham, K., & Asbury, W. (2003). Beyond the influence: Understanding and defeating alcoholism. Bantam.

Nutt, D. (2020). Drink?: The new science of alcohol and your health. Yellow Kite.

Porter, W. (2015). Alcohol explained. Alcohol Explained Ltd.

Why Willpower Isn’t Enough

Guest Post: Willpower in Recovery

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A person can deeply want recovery and still feel confused by their own behavior. They may wonder why they keep failing even though they truly want to change.

In my work with clients, I often find that relapse makes more sense when we slow down what happened hours and days before the final behavior. What looked like a sudden failure often had warning signs that were building earlier.

Why trying harder often breaks down

Relapse is often described as a process, not a single event, and many relapse prevention models describe the three stages of relapse⁠ as emotional, mental, and physical.

Willpower often fails because it focuses too much on the final moment, when the person is already overwhelmed, craving, or close to acting on an old pattern. This is one reason it can be helpful to move beyond common misconceptions about addiction⁠ and look more closely at how relapse actually builds.

A downloadable handout at the end of this article walks through the three stages of relapse and offers practical steps for what to do in each stage.

How Relapse Builds Over Time

One helpful way to understand relapse is to look at the timeline leading up to it.

Relying on willpower only at the moment of physical relapse can be like waiting to hit the brakes when the car is already speeding towards the edge of the cliff. The three-stage framework helps people notice when the car is drifting earlier, while there is still more room to correct course.

This does not remove responsibility, but it can reduce shame. When someone sees the chain of events more clearly, they can also begin to see where the pattern could be interrupted earlier next time.

Emotional Relapse: Becoming More Vulnerable

Emotional relapse can be confusing because the person may not be thinking about using at all.

Woman sitting at a café table looking thoughtfully out the window with a coffee cup and open notebook

They may still want recovery, but emotionally, something has started to shift. Stress is building, shame is getting louder, and the person may be pulling away from support or pretending they are doing better than they are.

This is like the warning light on the dashboard. Something may not be broken yet, but it needs attention before the problem gets worse.

In my work with clients, this is often the stage that gets missed. Someone may say, “I was doing fine, and then I just gave in,” but when we slow the story down, it often becomes clear they had not been doing fine for several days.

Signs that stress is building
Emotional relapse can look like:

  • feeling stressed or at capacity
  • pulling away from support
  • sleeping poorly
  • becoming irritable or resentful
  • neglecting basic self-care

When you notice this stage happening, it can help to label it clearly: “I am in emotional relapse.”

This is not the time to panic, but it is a time to become more cautious and honest with yourself. It means you are in a more vulnerable state, and your addiction may have more pull than usual over the next few days.

This stage matters because there is often more room to intervene. The person may not need an emergency plan yet, but they may need rest, support, or a way to name what they are feeling before the urge for escape gets stronger.

Mental Relapse: When the Bargaining Starts

Mental relapse is the stage where the person starts looking for a way back to the old behavior.

Man sitting on couch smiling and talking on a smartphone

They may still care about recovery, but their thoughts are starting to move toward permission, relief, or escape.

This is where the car starts drifting toward the shoulder. The person has not relapsed yet, but their thoughts are beginning to pull them closer to the old pattern.

When thoughts start giving permission
Mental relapse can sound like:

  • “Maybe just once.”
  • “I can handle it now.”
  • “I deserve some relief.”
  • “ I already failed, so what’s the point?”

In my work with clients, this is often where shame and stress start turning into permission. The person is not only having an urge; they are beginning to build a case for why the urge makes sense.

This is where the window starts to narrow. The old behavior may begin to feel more reasonable, more comforting, or more deserved. This is when the alarm bells should start going off in your head.

For many people, this bargaining can happen hours or even minutes before returning to the addiction. This is a strong sign that the relapse process is moving forward unless something changes.

This is the time to slow down and interrupt the pattern. That may mean avoiding people, places, or situations that give you easy access to the addiction. It may also be the best time to ask for help from your support systems and to make your healthy coping systems a priority for the day.

Physical Relapse: Why the Final Moment Is Not the Whole Story

Physical relapse is the stage where the person actually returns to the substance or addictive behavior.

Person preparing white powder on reflective tray with spoon indoors

This may be using the drug, opening the website, or doing the behavior they were trying to stop.

This is the edge-of-the-cliff moment. The behavior is happening or about to happen, so the plan needs to be simple, immediate, and concrete.

When the window is smaller

DBT distress tolerance skills can still help here, but the window is often small. This may mean leaving the room, calling someone, removing access, delaying for ten minutes, or doing anything that helps the person get through the next few minutes without making the situation worse.

Physical relapse also shows why earlier stages matter. If someone only makes a plan for the final moment, they may be waiting until the hardest possible time to intervene.

How DBT Skills Help People Catch the Process Earlier

DBT skills can be useful in addiction recovery because they give people something more specific than “try harder.”

Matching the skill to the stage

Instead of waiting until the final moment and hoping willpower shows up, DBT helps people ask, “What stage am I in, and what skill fits this moment?”

DBT skills can give people concrete ways to manage emotional intensity⁠, tolerate urges, reach out for support, change the environment, or get through the next few minutes without making the situation worse.

This is also why many approaches to substance use treatment⁠ focus on coping skills, support systems, emotional regulation, and relapse prevention planning rather than motivation alone.

The point is not that DBT makes recovery easy. The point is that skills give the person more places to intervene before the pattern becomes harder to stop.

Recovery Is Easier to Protect Earlier Than Later

Relapse prevention is not only about what someone does in the final moment before using or acting out.

It is also about noticing earlier warning signs, such as poor sleep, isolation, shame, bargaining, or secrecy, before the situation becomes more urgent.

Willpower may help someone commit to recovery, but skills help them practice recovery when it gets hard.

A better question after relapse

Instead of asking only, “Why wasn’t I strong enough?” a more useful question may be, “Where did this process start, and what can I do earlier next time?”

For readers who want more perspectives on addiction and recovery⁠, stories and psychoeducation can help reduce shame and make the recovery process feel less isolating.

The downloadable handout included here can help you map your own emotional, mental, and physical relapse warning signs and choose a next step for each stage.



Joseph Brooks is a Gainesville, FL counselor who works with teens and young adults navigating ADHD, emotional overwhelm, and addiction recovery. You can learn more about his work with ADHD and DBT⁠ at Brooks Counseling & Wellness.

20 Free Addiction Workbooks for Teens & Adults

Are you or someone you care about looking for support on the journey to recovery? While there are countless paid resources out there, finding reliable and free addiction workbooks can be a challenge. In this post, I’ve rounded up a collection of free addiction resources—workbooks you can access and print without a fee. Each of these workbooks is designed to offer tools, strategies, and reflections to support your recovery or your work as a helper.

Disclaimer:
Please note: These workbooks are shared here for informational purposes only. I’m not responsible for the content, accuracy, or privacy policies of the linked resources. While I’ve tried to include only reputable and helpful materials, always review any resource to ensure it meets your needs and consult with a licensed professional when needed. Additionally, readers are responsible for ensuring they adhere to all applicable copyright laws when using these resources.

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1. A 12-Step Workbook A 72-page workbook
3. The Addiction Recovery Skills Workbook
4. Addiction Workbook A 35-page workbook from the site ChoosingTherapy.com
5. Breaking Free of Addiction:42 Therapeutic Tools to Help You Recover from Problem Drug and Alcohol Use A 182-page workbook by Deborah Sosin, LICSW
6. Change: A Self-Help Manual for Drug and Alcohol Users Who Want to Make Changes
6. The Detox Handbook, A 44-page PDF, published by Exchange Supplies
7. Drugs, Brains, & Behavior: The Science of Addiction, A 36-page booklet, 2014
8. HAMS: Harm Reduction (A printed copy of the book can be purchased on Amazon by clicking the link below.)
9. Mindfulness Skills Workbook for Addiction
10. Motivation & Change: Recovery Workbook A 17-page workbook
11. The Outside-the-Box “Free Stuff” Pages | Kim Rosenthal, MD
12. Rethinking Drinking: Worksheets & More
13. Self-Awareness for Alcohol Reduction
14. Self-Help Strategies for Cutting Down or Stopping Substance Use-A Guide
15. Staying Sober Without God: A Free Companion Workbook

Staying Sober Without God: A Practical 12-Step Companion Workbook, 74 pages

The “official” companion workbook can be purchased here https://amzn.to/4kBC5Em.

16. SUBI Client Workbook-2nd Edition (2007)
16. Substance Misuse Workbook

Substance Misuse Workbook A 46-page CBT-based workbook from the site http://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/

17. You & Substance Use-Stuff to Think About… & Ways to Make Changes
18. The Wisdom to Know the Difference
19. Your Recovery Workbook-Managing Addiction

Bonus Section: Supplementary Materials Provided to be Used with Purchased Workbooks







200 Free Online (& PDF) Screening & Assessment Tools for Adults

This is an updated version of the post 500 Free Online Assessment & Screening Tools – mind remake project, which has been archived due to broken links.

Disclaimer: I worked hard to include only tools that are reliable and validated, but please don’t use these tools as diagnostic measures. They’re provided here for educational purposes only. If a questionnaire is copyrighted, please comply with copyright regulations.

  • PDF=Direct link to PDF
  • PDF for download=Link to webpage (or website) with PDF link
  • Interactive=No PDF, might require email or account signup, self-scoring unless indicated otherwise
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ADHD

ADHD Test: Adult ADHD Screening Quiz Interactive with scoring information

Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale (ASRS-v1.1) Interactive with scoring information

Structured Adult ADHD Self-Test (SAAST, Version 2011.1) Interactive with scoring information

Wender Utah Rating Scale – 25 item version (WURS-25) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Anger & Aggression

Clinical Anger Scale PDF

Buss and Perry Aggression Questionnaire (BPAQ) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions included

Antisocial Personality Disorder

The Psychopathy Checklist Printable form

Triarchic Psychopathy Measure (TriPM) PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Anxiety

Adult Separation Anxiety Questionnaire (ASA-27) PDF for download, scoring instructions available, Source: NovoPsych

Anxiety Tests – Free Online Anxiety Quizzes | Interactive assessments (Source: Anxiety Centre)

APA_DSM5_Severity-Measure-For-Specific-Phobia-Adult.pdf PDF

Appearance Anxiety Inventory (AAI) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Brief Fear of Negative Evaluation Scale (BFNE) – Addiction Research Center – UW–Madison PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Fear of Physician Scale Printable form

Hamilton Anxiety Rating Scale (HAM-A) PDF

Interactive Anxiousness Scale (IAS) PDF

 Intolerance of Uncertainty Scale (IUS) PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Liebowitz Social Anxiety Scale Interactive, self-scoring, Source: The National Social Anxiety Center (NSAC) 

Panic Disorder Severity Scale – Self Report Form PDF

Penn State Worry Questionnaire (PSWQ) PDF

Personal Report of Public Speaking Anxiety (PRPSA) Printable form with scoring instructions

Short Health Anxiety Inventory (SHAI) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Shyness Scale (SS) Printable form with scoring instructions

Temperament and Character Inventory (TCI) PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Attachment & Relationships

Adult Attachment Interview (AAI) PDF

Attachment Style Questionnaire PDF

Attachment Style Questionnaire – Short Form (ASQ-SF) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions included

Attachment Styles and Close Relationships

Couples Satisfaction Index PDF

Codependency-Questionnaire.pdf PDF with scoring instructions

DA Tools PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Friel Co-Dependency Assessment Inventory PDF, scoring information here

Ideal Partner and Ideal Relationship Scales Word doc for download

Kansas Marital Satisfaction Scale PDF

LOVE ATTITUDES SCALE PDF

MAQ (a measure of adult attachment qualities) Printable form

Marital Forgiveness Scale (Dispositional) Printable form

Passionate Love Scale PDF

Perceived Relationship Quality Components Inventory (PRQC) Word Doc for download

Relationship Attachment Style Test Interactive, self-scoring (fee for full report results, snapshot results free)

Relationships Questionnaire PDF

Relationship Power Inventory (RPI) Word doc for download

Spann-Fischer Codependency Scale PDF

Bipolar & Mania

Goldberg Bipolar Spectrum Screening Questionnaire Interactive with scoring information, Source: Counselling Resource

Goldberg Mania Questionnaire Interactive with scoring information, Source: Counselling Resource

Manic State Rating Scale PDF

Mood Disorder Questionnaire (MDQ) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Tri-Axial Bipolar Spectrum (TABS, Version 2011.1) Questionnaire Interactive with scoring information, Source: Counselling Resource

Young Mania Rating Scale PDF

Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline Personality Questionnaire (BPQ) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions included

Emotion Regulation Inventory (ERI) PDF for download, scoring instructions available, Source: NovoPsych

Borderline Symptom List (BSL-23) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

McLean Screening Instrument for BPD (MSI-BPD) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Burnout

Burnout Assessment Tool (BAT) Test manual with assessment

Oldenburg Burnout Inventory (OLBI) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Communication

Richmond Humor Assessment Instrument Printable form with scoring instructions

Self-Perceived Communication Competence Scale (SPCC) Printable form with scoring instructions 

SocioCommunicative Style Scale (SCS) Printable form with scoring instructions 

Talkaholic Scale Printable form with scoring instructions

Tolerance for Disagreement Scale (TFD) Printable form with scoring instructions

Willingness To Communicate (WTC) Printable form with scoring instructions

Willingness to Listen Measure Printable form with scoring instructions

Compassion & Self-Compassion

Compassion Motivation and Action Scales – Compassion (CMAS-other) – NovoPsych

The Compassion Scale (CS) PDF

Self-Compassion Scale (SCS) PDF, includes scoring instructions

Self-Compassion Scale-Short Form (SCS-SF), PDF, includes scoring instructions

Self-Compassion Test Interactive, self-scoring version

Coping Strategies & Maladaptive Coping

Brief Resilient Coping Scale PDF

Brief Experiential Avoidance Questionnaire (BEAQ) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

COPE Inventory (Full version) Includes scoring information, Interactive, self-scoring version

Maladaptive Schema Scale (MSS) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

The Proactive Coping Inventory PDF

Young Schema Aligned (MSS-YSQ) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Depression

Beck Depression Inventory (BDI) | PDF with scoring instructions (Author: Aaron T. Beck)

Behavioral Activation for Depression Scale | PDF with scoring instructions

The British Columbia Cognitive Complaints Inventory (BC-CCI) PDF

Center for Epidemiologic Studies Depression Scale (CES-D), NIMH PDF

Depression Screening – My HealtheVet – My HealtheVet Interactive, self-scoring

Geriatric Depression Scale (GDS-15) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Goldberg Depression Questionnaire Interactive with scoring information, Source: Counselling Resource

Hamilton Depression Rating Scale (HDRS) PDF

Inventory of Depressive Symptomatology (Self-Report) (IDS-SR) PDF

Male Depression Risk Scale (MDRS-22) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Dissociation & Depersonalization

Cambridge Depersonalization Scale PDF

Multidimensional Inventory of Dissociation – 60-item version (MID-60) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Eating Disorders & Body Image

Binge-Eating Scale (BES) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

BODY-IMAGE IDEALS QUESTIONNAIRE (with Manual)

Clinical Impairment Assessment Questionnaire (CIA) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Eating Attitudes Test-26 (EAT-26) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Eating Disorder Examination © (EDE) (Edition 17.0D) PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Eating Disorder-15 (ED-15) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Eating Disorder Diagnostic Scale (EDDS) Interactive, self-scoring

Eating Pathology Symptoms Inventory (EPSI) Printable form

Eating Questionnaire PDF

Image Fixation Questionnaire Printable form with scoring instructions

The Sick, Control, One, Fat, Food (SCOFF) Questionnaire Interactive, self-scoring

Yale-Brown-Cornell Eating Disorder Scale (YBC-EDS) PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Emotional Intelligence

Brief Emotional Intelligence Scale (BEIS-10) PDF for download, scoring instructions included, Source: NovoPsych

Mindfulness

Acceptance & Action Questionnaire-II PDF

Automatic Thoughts Questionnaire (ATQ) Printable form

Cognitive and Affective Mindfulness Scale- Revised (CAMS-R) PDF

Five Facet Mindfulness Questionnaire (FFMQ-15) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Freiburg Mindfulness Inventory PDF

Kentucky Inventory of Mindfulness Skills PDF

Mindful Attention Awareness Scale (MAAS) PDF for download, scoring instructions included

Philadelphia Mindfulness Scale (PHLMS) Printable form

Toronto Mindfulness Scale Printable form

Motivation

Intrinsic Motivation Inventory PDF for download, scoring instructions included

Work Extrinsic and Intrinsic Motivation Scale (WEIMS) PDF for download, scoring instructions included

Obsessive-compulsive & Hoarding

Clutter Image Rating PDF

Hoarding Rating Scale PDF

Obsessional Compulsive Inventory – Revised (OCI-R) – NovoPsych

Saving Inventory – Revised PDF

Personality Tests

DISC Personality Test Interactive, self-scoring

International Personality Item Pool – NEO – 120 item version (IPIP-NEO-120) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

NovoPsych Five Factor Personality Scale – 30 item version (NFFPS-30) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Personality Inventory for DSM-5 – Short Form (PID-5-SF) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Positive Psychology & Life Satisfaction

Brief Resilience Scale (BRS) PDF

Comprehensive Inventory of Thriving (CIT) and Brief Inventory of Thriving (BIT)

Connor-Davidson Resilience Scale (CD-RISC 25) Must submit request to obtain scale

Empathy Quotient (EQ-40) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring information available

Flourishing Scale PDF for download

Grit Scale Interactive, self-scoring

Personal Wellbeing Index – Adult – 5 (PWI-A) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Quality of Life Enjoyment and Satisfaction Questionnaire PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Recovery Assessment Scale PDF

Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale (RSE) PDF

Satisfaction with Life Scale (SWLS) PDF for download, scoring instructions separate PDF

Scale of Positive and Negative Experience (SPANE)

Toronto Empathy Questionnaire, Interactive, self-scoring

VIA Character Strengths Survey Interactive, sell-scoring

Wellbeing Assessment Interactive, self-scoring

Self-Determination

Who Five Well Being Index (WHO-5)​ Interactive, self-scoring

Perceived Choice and Awareness of Self Scale (PCASS) (PDF for download, scoring instructions included)

Perceived Competence Scales (PCS) (PDF for download, scoring instructions included)

Self-Regulation Questionnaires (SRQ) (PDFs for download, scoring instructions included)

Substance Use & Behavioral Addictions

AlcoholScreening.org (Interactive, self-scoring)

The Alcohol, Smoking and Substance Involvement Screening Test (ASSIST) PDF for download, Source: WHO

Alcohol Use Disorders Identification Test (AUDIT) Interactive, self-scoring, (Click here for a PDF version from UMKC SBIRT)

Alcohol Use Self-check Interactive, self-scoring, Source: FOUNDRY

Addiction Test – Mental Health America Interactive, self-scoring

CAGE-Substance-Screening-Tool PDF

Drinking Behavior Questionnaire PDF. Scoring instructions here

Drinking Motives Questionnaire-Revised (DMQR) PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Drug Abuse Screening Test, DAST-10

Leeds Dependence Questionnaire (LDQ) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Michigan Alcohol Screening Test (MAST), Revised | Interactive with scoring information, Source: Counselling source

Problem Gambling Self-Assessment – National Council on Problem Gambling

Processes of Change Questionnaire (for Alcohol Use) PDF

Processes of Change Questionnaire (for Drug Use) PDF

Problem Gambling Severity Index (PGSI) – NovoPsych

Sexual Addiction Test Interactive, self-scoring, Source: PsychCentral

Yale Food Addiction Scale PDF

Trauma & Stress

Adverse Childhood Experiences Questionnaire (ACE-Q) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Chronic Stress PDF for download, scoring instructions available, Source: PhenX

The Civilian Mississippi Scale PDF

Clinician-Administered PTSD Scale for DSM-5 (CAPS-5) Must submit request to obtain scale, free training for clinicians

General Distress Screener PDF for download, scoring instructions available, Source: PhenX

International Trauma Questionnaire (ITQ) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Kessler Psychological Distress Scale PLUS (K10+) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Life Events Checklist for DSM-5 (LEC-5) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

Mississippi Scale for Combat-related PTSD PDF, Scoring information here

Modified PTSD Symptom Scale (MPSS-SR) Must submit request to obtain scale

Perceived Stress Scale (PSS-10) – NovoPsych PDF for download, scoring instructions available

PTSD Symptom Scale – Interview for DSM-5 Must submit request to obtain scale

Trauma History Questionnaire PDF

Structured Interview for PTSD (SI-PTSD) Must submit request to obtain scale


Websites with Free Assessments

Browse through multiple assessments to find the one that suits your needs. Please ensure compliance with copyright regulations.

Depression Assessment Instruments APA

Questionnaire Center | Authentic Happiness

Self-Report Measures – Addiction Research Center – UW–Madison

Counselling Resource Psychological Self-Tests and Quizzes

Psychiatry.org – DSM-5-TR Online Assessment Measures

Resources | The Fetzer Institute

RESEARCH MEASURES Dr. James C. McCroskey

All tools | Best Practices in Psychology Portal – McGill University

Assessments – NovoPsych

 Open-Source Psychometrics Project

PhenX Toolkit: Resources

PSYCHOLOGICAL SCALES

Mental Health Tests and Quizzes PsychCentral

Welleing Measures | The Human Flourishing Program

Metrics & Methods: Questionnaires – selfdeterminationtheory.org

Scales Overview – Ed Diener, Subjective WellBeing

Clinician Tools – SBIRT for Substance Abuse

Substance Use Assessments | Taking the Escalator

TTM Measures – HABITS Lab – UMBC

Measurement Resources – MedConsults – College of Medicine – University of Florida

Scales/Measures | Social Interaction Lab University of Minnesota

Screening & Brief Intervention Tools – University of Victoria

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Sample Treatment Plan for SUD

A sample treatment plan for SUD (substance use disorder) with suggested goals, objectives, and interventions, as well as a recommended book list

This is a generic, sample treatment plan for SUD (substance use disorder). It includes a suggested reading list as well as the National Institute on Drug Abuse’s principles of effective substance use treatment.

Treatment Plan for SUD

CLIENT GOALS

Increase knowledge about addiction and treatment: Individuals should have a basic understanding of addiction, including the signs, symptoms, and the underlying factors associated with developing a SUD. Individuals should be introduced to multiple treatment approaches. (There is no “one-size-fits-all.”)

Develop coping and emotional regulation skills: Individuals should learn how to cope with stress, difficult emotions, and cravings without using substances.

Improve social support and develop effective interpersonal skills: Individuals should develop a strong support network of people who care about them and can help them in their recovery as well as learn how to communicate effectively.

Relapse prevention: Individuals should develop a written plan for how they will maintain their sobriety. Components of a strong relapse prevention plan include the following:  

  1. Identify triggers and warning signs: One of the first steps in relapse prevention is identifying triggers. Triggers can be internal (i.e., difficult emotions, thoughts about using, etc.) or external (i.e., people, places, events, circumstances, etc.) Warning signs are behavioral changes or changes in mood or thinking that may indicate the person is in “relapse mode.” Common warning signs include isolation, not attending 12-step meetings, sleeping too much or too little, irritability, etc. (Hint: The individual should consider asking significant others, close friends, or family members for help with identifying their warning signs.)
  2. Develop a coping plan: Once the individual is aware of their triggers and warning signs, they can develop a plan for how they will manage them. This plan might include things like calling a friend, going to a meeting, or taking a walk. The plan should be individualized; things that work for one person may not work for other. The plan should also include coping or distraction techniques for cravings. (Consider this worksheet for tracking urges to use.)
  3. Identify and avoid high-risk situations: If certain situations are likely to trigger the individual, it is best to avoid them if possible. This might mean not going to certain places or not hanging out with certain people. The individual should consider setting boundaries with loved ones who trigger them. If a situation is unavoidable, they may want to bring their sponsor or trusted person with them.
  4. MAT (medication-assisted treatment): A psychiatrist or other licensed provider can prescribe medications such as naltrexone or buprenorphine to reduce cravings. (For locating a practitioner who specializes in MAT, see Buprenorphine Treatment Practitioner Locator | SAMHSA.)
  5. Mental health treatment: If the individual has a mental health diagnosis, it’s important to take mental health medications as prescribed and attend all scheduled psychiatric appointments. It’s also important to understand how co-occurring disorders interact with substance use.
  6. Stay connected to a support network: It is important to stay connected to a support system, such as a therapist, 12-step (or similar) group (e.g., Alcoholics Anonymous, NA, SMART Recovery, Celebrate Recovery, Women for Sobriety, etc.), peer support, or friends and family who are supportive of recovery goals. A recovery network can help the individual to stay on track.
  7. Practice self-care: Self-care and wellness practices are important for everyone, but especially so for individuals in recovery. It’s crucial to get enough rest, eat healthy foods, drink plenty of water, attend to physical illness, and exercise regularly (at a minimum). Nutrition in recovery is especially important for heavy drinkers; the individual should consider seeing a nutritionist if they have a history of alcoholism.
  8. Find hobbies or leisure activities to pursue: A strong recovery program is balanced and includes enjoyable activities. The individual should plan leisure activities or explore new hobbies and engage in them on a regular basis.
  9. Explore spirituality: Many individuals find that spiritual practices such as attending church, seeking guidance from a spiritual leader or shaman, forest “bathing,” etc. enhance their recovery program.  
  10. Have patience: Relapse prevention can be a lifelong process. There may be times when slip ups happen. This does not take away from the time the individual maintained their sobriety. The important thing is to get back on track and not give up.

CLIENT OBJECTIVES


THERAPIST INTERVENTIONS

Assess for the following:

Evidence-based therapeutic approaches:

Therapeutic interventionS:


SUGGESTED READING FOR SUBSTANCE USE AND RELATED DISORDERS

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Addiction and Change: How Addictions Develop and Addicted People Recover by Carlo C. DiClemente

The Addiction Recovery Skills Workbook: Changing Addictive Behaviors Using CBT, Mindfulness, and Motivational Interviewing Techniques by Suzette Glasner-Edwards, PhD

Adult Children of Alcoholics by Dr. Janet G. Woititz 

The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edmund J. Bourne, PhD

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find – and Keep – Love by Amir Levine

Becoming Aware: A 21-Day Mindfulness Program for Reducing Anxiety and Cultivating Calm by Dr. Daniel Siegel, MD

Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change by Jeffrey Foote

Beyond the Influence: Understanding and Defeating Alcoholism by Katherine Ketcham

The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous by Anonymous

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk, MD

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud

Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone by Brené Brown

The Cognitive Behavioral Workbook for Anger: A Step-by-Step Program for Success by William J. Knaus, EdD

The Cognitive Behavioral Workbook for Anxiety: A Step-By-Step Program by William J. Knaus, EdD

The Cognitive Behavioral Workbook for Depression: A Step-by-Step Program by William J. Knaus, EdD

The Complete Family Guide to Addiction: Everything You Need to Know Now to Help Your Loved One and Yourself by Thomas F. Harrison

The Complex PTSD Workbook: A Mind-Body Approach to Regaining Emotional Control and Becoming Whole by Arielle Schwartz, PhD

The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet Lerner

The Dance of Intimacy: A Woman’s Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships by Harriet Lerner

The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook: Practical DBT Exercises for Learning Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotion Regulation, and Distress Tolerance by Matthew McKay, PhD

Feeling Great: The Revolutionary New Treatment for Depression and Anxiety by David D. Burns, MD

Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Wellbeing by Martin E. P. Seligman

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book) by Don Miguel Ruiz

Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior by Mark Goulston

The Happiness Advantage: How a Positive Brain Fuels Success in Work and Life by Shawn Achor

The Happiness Trap: How to Stop Struggling and Start Living by Russ Harris

In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction by Gabor Maté, MD

It Will Never Happen to Me: Growing Up with Addiction as Youngsters, Adolescents, and Adults by Claudia Black, PhD

A Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Workbook by Bob Stahl, PhD

The Mindfulness Workbook for Addiction: A Guide to Coping with the Grief, Stress, and Anger That Trigger Addictive Behaviors by Rebecca E. Williams, PhD

Narcotics Anonymous Basic Text by Anonymous

The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg

The PTSD Workbook: Simple, Effective Techniques for Overcoming Traumatic Stress Symptoms by Mary Beth Williams, PhD, LCSW, CTS

Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life with the Heart of a Buddha by Tara Brach

Refuge Recovery: A Buddhist Path to Recovering from Addiction by Noah Levine

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Dr. Kristin Neff

The Self-Esteem Workbook by Glenn R. Schiraldi, PhD

The Sober Survival Guide: How to Free Yourself from Alcohol Forever – Quit Alcohol & Start Living! by Simon Chapple

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life by Mark Manson

Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions by Anonymous

Under the Influence: A Life-Saving Guide to the Myths and Realities of Alcoholism by James Robert Milam

The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time by Alex Korb, PhD

The Wellness Workbook: How to Achieve Enduring Health and Vitality by John W. Travis

A Woman’s Addiction Workbook: Your Guide to In-Depth Healing by Lisa M. Najavits

You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life by Jen Sincero


NIDA’S PRINCIPLES OF EFFECTIVE TREATMENT

  1. Addiction is a complex but treatable disease that affects brain function and behavior. Drugs of abuse alter the brain’s structure and function, resulting in changes that persist long after drug use has ceased.
  2. No single treatment is appropriate for everyone. Treatment varies depending on the type of drug and the characteristics of the patients.
  3. Treatment needs to be readily available. Because drug-addicted individuals may be uncertain about entering treatment, taking advantage of available services the moment people are ready for treatment is critical.
  4. Effective treatment attends to multiple needs of the individual, not just his or her drug abuse. To be effective, treatment must address the individual’s drug abuse and any associated medical, psychological, social, vocational, and legal problems. It is also important that treatment be appropriate to the individual’s age, gender, ethnicity, and culture.
  5. Remaining in treatment for an adequate period of time is critical. The appropriate duration for an individual depends on the type and degree of the patient’s problems and needs. Research indicates that most addicted individuals need at least 3 months in treatment to significantly reduce or stop their drug use and that the best outcomes occur with longer durations of treatment.
  6. Behavioral therapies—including individual, family, or group counseling—are the most commonly used forms of drug abuse treatment.
  7. Medications are an important element of treatment for many patients, especially when combined with counseling and other behavioral therapies.
  8. An individual’s treatment and services plan must be assessed continually and modified as necessary to ensure that it meets his or her changing needs. A patient may require varying combinations of services and treatment components during the course of treatment and recovery.
  9. Many drug-addicted individuals also have other mental disorders. Because drug abuse and addiction—both of which are mental disorders—often co-occur with other mental illnesses, patients presenting with one condition should be assessed for the other(s).
  10. Medically assisted detoxification is only the first stage of addiction treatment and by itself does little to change long-term drug abuse.
  11. Treatment does not need to be voluntary to be effective.
  12. Drug use during treatment must be monitored continuously, as lapses during treatment do occur. Knowing their drug use is being monitored can be a powerful incentive for patients and can help them withstand urges to use drugs. Monitoring also provides an early indication of a return to drug use, signaling a possible need to adjust an individual’s treatment plan to better meet his or her needs.
  13. Treatment programs should test patients for the presence of HIV/AIDS, hepatitis B and C, tuberculosis, and other infectious diseases as well as provide targeted risk-reduction counseling, linking patients to treatment if necessary.

Source: Principles of Drug Addiction: A Research-Based Guide (Third Edition) (nih.gov)


25 Powerful Quotes About Addiction & Recovery

A list of 25 powerful and compelling quotes about addiction and recovery that are relatable, darkly funny, and inspiring.

This is a list of quotes about addiction, suffering, and hope that spoke to me – as an addictions professional – as well as on a human level.

These quotes about addiction are raw and relatable, with perhaps my favorites being from the memoir Drinking: A Love Story, in which the author, Caroline Knapp, bares her soul so compellingly that she becomes a kindred spirit in her vulnerability. Carrie Fisher also has a way with words, frank and darkly witty on the topic of addiction.

Read on for quotes about addiction from famous actors, singers, writers, sex workers, and more.


Quotes about addiction: on why people become addicted…

“And then I realized I was high. I loved the sensation. It felt like medicine to soothe the soul and awaken the senses. There was nothing awkward or scary – I didn’t feel like I had lost control – in fact, I felt like I was in control.”

Anthony Kiedis (Founder & Lead Vocalist of the Red Hot Chili Peppers)

“Drugs don’t really fix anything, except for everything.”

Ashly Lorenzana (American Sex Worker, Freelance Writer, & Writer of the Memoir Sex, Drugs & Being an Escort)

“The priority of any addict is to anaesthetize the pain of living to ease the passage of day with some purchased relief.”

Russell Brand (English Comedian, Actor, & Author of My Booky Wook)

“To a drinker the sensation is real and pure and akin to something spiritual: you seek; in the bottle, you find.”

Caroline Knapp (American Writer & Author of Drinking: A Love Story)

On what it’s like having an addiction…

“It has been the desperate attempt to escape from torturing memories, from a sense of insupportable loneliness and a dread of some strange impending doom.”

Edgar Allan Poe (American Writer, Poet, & Literary Critic)

“The attempt to escape from pain, is what creates more pain.”

Gabor Maté (Canadian Physician & Author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction)

“Imagine trying to live without air.
Now imagine something worse.”

Amy Reed (American Author)

“Drugs are a sort of dusk that grant us the illusion that we’re the ones who decide when the light goes out, but that power never belongs to us. The darkness takes us whenever it likes.”

Fredrik Backman (Swedish Author, Blogger, & Columnist)

“If you have a need to be comfortable all the time—well, among other things, you have the makings of a classic drug addict or alcoholic.”

— Carrie Fisher (American Actress & Writer)

“If you’re one of us, the bottle takes your shit, that’s all. First a little, then a lot, then everything.”

Stephen King (Best-selling American Author, the “King of Horror”)

“I drank when I was happy and I drank when I was anxious and I drank when I was bored and I drank when I was depressed, which was often.”

Caroline Knapp

“I’ve been asleep and I don’t know if it’s the same day or week or year, but who the hell cares anyway?”

Beatrice Sparks (American Author, Mormon Youth Counselor, & Hoaxer)

Dark humor…

“Reality is just a crutch for people who can’t handle drugs.”

Robin Williams (American Actor & Comedian)

“I used to have a drug problem, now I make enough money.”

David Lee Roth (American Singer, Songwriter, & Original Lead Vocalist of Van Halen)

“An alcoholic will steal your wallet and lie to you. A drug addict will steal your wallet and then help you look for it.”

David Sheff (American Author)

Karl Marx:

“Religion is the opiate of the masses.”

Carrie Fisher:

“I did masses of opiates religiously.”

— Postcards from the Edge

“Selling my soul would be a lot easier if I could just find it.”

Nikki Sixx (Co-founder, Bassist, & Primary Songwriter for Mötley Crüe)

“People are a lot easier to be around when they’re not tweaking out on meth.”

Joe Exotic (“The Tiger King”)

“And in my mind, this settles the issue. I would never drink cologne, and am therefore not an alcoholic.”

Augusten Burroughs (American Author & Screenwriter)

Quotes about addiction: on quitting and recovery…

“[Crystal methamphetamine] was the hardest boyfriend I ever had to break up with.”

Fergie (American Singer/Rapper, Songwriter, & Actress)

“Your addiction is not your identity, but you won’t know that until you’re in recovery; that’s when the two separate.”

Toni Sorenson (American Author)

“The opposite of addiction isn’t sobriety. It’s connection.”

— Johann Hari (Journalist, Writer, & Admitted Plagiarist)

“Getting sober was one of the three pivotal events in my life, along with becoming an actor and having a child. Of the three, finding my sobriety was the hardest.”

Gary Oldman (English Actor & Filmmaker)

“When you quit drinking, you stop waiting.”

— Caroline Knapp

“Recovery is an acceptance that your life is in shambles and you have to change it.”

Jamie Lee Curtis (American Actress, Producer, & Author)

Share your favorite quotes about addiction and recovery in a comment!


Guest Post: Addiction, Family, & Healing

The battles that come with loving a person with an addiction are deeply painful. Healing takes time, but it is possible to recover and rebuild trust.

The battles that come with loving a person who struggles with addiction can be extremely painful. One such battle is having to face the dishonest words and behaviors of your loved one.

When Trust Falls Apart: A Look at Addiction, Family, & Healing

Families will often come to me, astounded by how their addicted loved one can look them right in the eye and calmly lie that he/she is not drunk or high, when it’s evident that he/she is. This type of interaction feels so very personal to the family.

It can leave the family feeling hurt, disillusioned, or downright furious. We think, “How could they do that to someone they love?!”

In a healthy brain, one that is unencumbered by the highjacking of addiction…they likely wouldn’t. That’s why it’s so confusing and painful. Many families will report that the dishonesty about drug and alcohol use causes more wounds to the relationship than the use itself!

However, with education about how addiction works, we can come to understand how the bizarre nature of this disease can actually be fairly predictable – and why our loved one has deviated in this way from values we hold dear (and maybe they once did too).

Getting High to Survive

As addiction progresses, the addicted person becomes more and more captive to the demands of the disease. Because the disease greatly impacts the “survival circuitry” in the brain, the perceived need for the drink/drug becomes a profound compulsion.

The logic that an addicted person would follow is similar to that of a starving man who easily justifies the theft of a loaf of bread, “I gotta do what I gotta do. I’ll deal with the consequences later.”

Stuck in the Middle

I often envision an addicted person in a tragic tug-o-war. On one team is the Disease, fierce and manipulating them into submission. On the other team are Societal Expectations: the shared belief structure of right vs. wrong, laws, and norms.

The notion of a healthy family structure falls under the umbrella of this second team, holding expectations of mutual respect, consideration, honesty, and the like.

While most addicted people never fully abandon these values in their heart of hearts, the pull of the disease tugs progressively stronger until the person is being yanked between others’ expectations and their own compulsions.

At this point, it can feel to the addicted person that the most adaptive solution is… lie like your life depends on it.

In other words, the addicted person attempts to keep society/family satisfied (or at least at bay) while keeping the disease satisfied by continuing to feed it.

It’s Not Because They Don’t Love You

As personal as the dishonesty can feel, this was never about love. I have come to consider dishonesty as an actual symptom of substance use disorder. It’s an adaptation the addicted person makes to continue surviving in “normal life” in spite of the profound changes that have occurred in their brain.

To be clear, I do not share the above explanation as a justification of hurtful behavior. I share it as a clinician who happens not to have a personal history of addiction.

In my early years as a provider for the substance-misusing population, I too, struggled with the bewilderment, and at times admittedly hurt feelings, when my addicted clients would lie to me about their recent use. After all, I was there to help them, right? Why would they lie to ME?

I’ve come to truly understand however, that dishonesty serves as an odd… but reliable ally that shields the addicted person from their shame, consequences, and need to explain their actions.

While a growing body of neuro-scientific understanding continues to shed light on the “WHY?” many of my clients would admit that on a personal level, they truly don’t understand why they do what they do.

What they do know however is that in order to get to their next fix, they need to evade those that love them the most. A loving family who wants to save you from addiction is the greatest threat to your next high.

Breaking Up & Waking Up

That powerful allegiance between the addicted person and their drug/drink seems only to be broken when they themselves come to understand that this intimate affair they’ve had with their substance has become a nightmarish relationship with a toxic abuser, the kind of abuser that controls their life and takes everything else they love away.

At that point, we hope they can finally reconsider their allegiances.

Recovery: Not Just for Substance Users

When a loved one enters recovery from addiction, it often takes the family a very long time to trust again. Understandably there is skepticism and disillusionment. After all, if a person has looked us in the eye and lied so calmly to us during active addiction, what is our barometer for honesty now?

The notion that “time takes time” is a reality that a recovering person must humbly accept. The addiction caused great damage, and that will take time to heal.

But as the family nurses its wounds, they must also understand that trust-building is a two way street. We must accept that our loved one lied to us because they didn’t trust us to understand the tug-o-war in which they were trapped.

The only way to become a trusted ally is to begin listening and trying to understand. In this, we also hopefully set the stage for them to eventually hear and understand our pain as well.


About the Author: Karen Perlmutter, LISW-CP, has worked as a therapist in clinic, hospital, and private practice settings for 15 years. She specializes in the treatment of substance abuse and mental illness, with a particular interest in supporting the entire family system through the complex journey of addiction. She has developed an evidence-based course for families coping with a loved one’s addiction.  Karen also aims to share education, support and hope with the community through a variety of speaking forums which have included universities, treatment programs, support groups, National Public Radio, professional development events, and an upcoming Tedx Charleston talk.


18 Best TED Talks for Addiction & Recovery

18 of the best TED Talks for addiction and recovery by healthcare professionals, athletes, a Fortune 500 entrepreneur, a former Miss USA, and more.

The best TED Talks for addiction and recovery, along with other powerful YouTube videos to play for clients in a treatment setting – or for yourself or for anyone who desires to learn more about substance use.

The following best TED Talks for addiction are entertaining, insightful, and though-provoking.


18 Best TED Talks for Addiction & Recovery

1. The 12 Steps According to Russell Brand (2018)

A 10-minute clip of Russell Brand’s interpretation of the 12 Steps. Humorous and honest.

2. Addiction: A Story of Stigma, A Story of Hope | Scott McFadden (2020)

This 18-minute talk delivered by Scott McFadden is one of the best TED Talks for addiction as it addresses stigma and sends a message of hope.

Excerpt: Scott McFadden is a Licensed Addictions Counselor, who also identifies as a person in long term recovery from heroin and other drugs. He shares a harrowing story of incarceration and a long journey to recovery while explaining the dynamics of addiction and the labels, shame, and stigma which have become the greatest obstacles to turning around the opioid epidemic.

He shows us the need to talk to one another to overcome the secret places where shame resides. This is a story of vulnerability and hope!

5. Addiction Neuroscience 101 (2018)

Approximately 25 minutes, an overview of the neurobiology of addiction.

4. Chris Herren Speaking on His Addiction Recovery Story | PeaceLove (2015)

A 17-minute motivational speech delivered by Chris Herren.

Excerpt: Hear former professional basketball player and motivational speaker Chris Herren speaking about his recovery from drug addiction. Since August of 2008, Herren has been drug-free and alcohol-free, and has refocused his life to put his sobriety and family above all other things.

5. Disconnected Brains: How Isolation Fuels Opioid Addiction | Rachel Wurzman (2018)

This fascinating 19-minute video clip from Rachel Wurzman is one of the best TED Talks for addiction as a biopsychosocial disorder.

Excerpt: Addiction to opioids is now officially a national emergency. But why are addiction rates spiking and what can we do about it? Neuroscientist Rachel Wurzman shares new research about how the brain reacts to opioids, replacing the sense of community and belonging human beings are losing. We are beginning to understand that solving the opioid epidemic will require us to focus on social factors surrounding those addicted.

6. Do You Have More Heart Than Scars? | Zackary Paben (2017)

A 17-minute inspirational talk by Zackary Paben.

Excerpt: How can resilience and interdependence impact the arch of our personal narrative to transcend from victim to hero? Since 1991, Zack has been empowering adolescents and adults as a mental health/recovery professional in a variety of modalities, including wilderness and residential.

As he continues to face his own visible and invisible scars, he innately has to acknowledge the wounds of others and encourage them in their own healing process.

7. Everything You Think You Know About Addiction Is Wrong | Johann Hari (2015)

A 15-minute video from Johann Hari. This piece is somewhat controversial because it suggests that addiction is a social/environmental issue while failing to address the impact of trauma, genetics, brain chemistry, etc. This clip is an excellent tool for generating discussions and is one of the best TED Talks for addiction.

Excerpt: What really causes addiction — to everything from cocaine to smart-phones? And how can we overcome it? Johann Hari has seen our current methods fail firsthand, as he has watched loved ones struggle to manage their addictions. He started to wonder why we treat addicts the way we do — and if there might be a better way.

As he shares in this deeply personal talk, his questions took him around the world, and unearthed some surprising and hopeful ways of thinking about an age-old problem.

8. Great Leaders Do What Drug Addicts Do | Michael Brody-Waite (2018)

An 19-minute talk from Michael Brody-Waite, entrepreneur and addict in recovery.

Excerpt: This is my story from drug addiction and homelessness to founding and leading a company on the Inc 500 list. There are 3 principles that saved me from death and set me apart as a leader. They are small enough to fit in your pocket, yet big enough to change your life. The best part is that anyone can take these principles and immediately implement them after watching this talk.

9. The Harm Reduction Model of Drug Addiction Treatment | Mark Tyndall (2017)

This 17-minute video from Mark Tyndall about harm reduction and recovery is one of the best TED Talks for addiction treatment.

Excerpt: Why do we still think that drug use is a law-enforcement issue? Making drugs illegal does nothing to stop people from using them, says public health expert Mark Tyndall. So, what might work?

Tyndall shares community-based research that shows how harm-reduction strategies, like safe-injection sites, are working to address the drug overdose crisis.

10. How Childhood Trauma Affects Health Across a Lifetime | Nadine Burke Harris (2015)

16-minute talk by Dr. Nadine Burke Harris on the impact of trauma.

Excerpt: Childhood trauma isn’t something you just get over as you grow up. Pediatrician Nadine Burke Harris explains that the repeated stress of abuse, neglect and parents struggling with mental health or substance abuse issues has real, tangible effects on the development of the brain.

This unfolds across a lifetime, to the point where those who’ve experienced high levels of trauma are at triple the risk for heart disease and lung cancer.

11. Let’s Quit Abusing Drug Users (2015)

19-minute video clip about addiction and recovery reform from Dr. Carl Hart. He discusses drug use in the context of poverty, social injustice, and ignorance. An excellent video for generating discussion and one of the best TED Talks for addiction and policy reform.

Excerpt: Carl Hart, Associate Professor of Psychiatry and Psychology at Columbia University, offers a provocative, evidence-based view of addiction and discusses how it should impact drug policy.

12. The Merits of Harm Reduction | Melissa Byers (2019)

14-minute video clip from Melissa Byers about addiction, harm reduction, and recovery.

Excerpt: Melissa shares her family’s personal story of addiction and how harm reduction plays a much more significant role to recovery than people realize.

13. Nuggets (2015)

A 5-minute cartoon clip of a kiwi bird who tastes a golden “nugget.” This simple animation doesn’t require words to send a powerful message about addiction. Hauntingly accurate.

14. The Power of Addiction and The Addiction of Power | Gabor Maté (2012)

This 19-minute speech delivered by Gabor Maté is one of the best TED Talks for addiction.

Excerpt: Canadian physician Gabor Maté is a specialist in terminal illnesses, chemical dependents, and HIV positive patients. Dr. Maté is a renowned author of books and columnist known for his knowledge about attention deficit disorder, stress, chronic illness and parental relations.

15. Recover Out Loud | Tara Conner (2017)

One of the best TED Talks for addiction, this 10-minute video clip from former Miss USA, Tara Conner, is all about her personal experience with substance use.

Excerpt: Tara Conner, Miss USA 2006, shares her life-long struggle with addiction and what she has learned from 10 years of sobriety. Addicts are not bad people that need to get good, but sick people that need to get well.

In this challenging and at times humorous talk, she calls for a different response to the addiction crisis.

16. Revitalize | Living With Addiction | Amber Valletta (2015)

16-minute inspirational talk delivered by Amber Valletta.

Excerpt: Supermodel, actress, and fashion icon Amber Valletta opens up for the first time about her daily struggle of living with addiction.

17. Rewriting the Story of My Addiction | Jo Harvey Weatherford (2015)

10-minute video clip from Jo Harvey Weatherford about her personal recovery journey.

Excerpt: Jo Harvey Weatherford develops and implements drug and alcohol prevention programs on the campus of The University of Nevada. In this candid talk she discusses the importance of the stories we tell ourselves about our behavior, and how she rewrote her own story of addiction to alcohol.

18. The Stigma of Addiction | Tony Hoffman (2018)

This 15-minute video from Tony Hoffman is one of the best TED Talks for addiction. He shares about his substance use and stigma.

Excerpt: There is a stigma which many assign to drug addicts, even long after they have overcome their addiction. Tony discusses how his first time smoking marijuana led to his eventual drug addiction, homelessness, prison, and finally redemption.


For Families – The Island of Insanity: Navigating Through Loved Ones’ Addictions | Karen Perlmutter (2022)

A powerful 13-minute video for anyone who is traumatized by the addiction of a loved one.

Excerpt: With a master’s degree in clinical social work, Karen has seen first-hand that addiction is a tragedy with a profound effect on the family. She has ideas on how we can support families in combatting the devastating effects of this disease After earning her undergraduate degree through the University of South Carolina in 2003, Karen began working with teens and families through a therapeutic foster care agency. She pursued higher education in the field, earning her Master’s in Clinical Social Work at the University of North Carolina (Wilmington) in 2007, and continuing on to becoming a Licensed Independent Social Worker.

Karen has over a decade of experience working as a therapist with individuals, couples, and families. She specializes in the treatment of substance abuse and mental illness, and has developed a particular interest in supporting the holistic needs of families who are affected by these struggles.


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15 Common Misconceptions About Addiction

Misconceptions about addiction are prevalent in today’s society and contribute to stigma. This is a list of 15 common misconceptions about addiction.

Despite a large body of scientific research, myths and misconceptions about addiction remain prevalent in today’s society, contributing to stigma, barriers to treatment, and higher health burdens. The following is a list of common misconceptions.


15 COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT ADDICTION

1. Misconception: Addiction is choice.

Fact: Addiction is widely recognized as a primary disorder of the brain. According to the American Society of Addiction Medicine, “Addiction is a treatable, chronic medical disease involving complex interactions among brain circuits, genetics, the environment, and an individual’s life experiences. People with addiction use substances or engage in behaviors that become compulsive and often continue despite harmful consequences.” Heavy and continuous use of drugs/alcohol damages the brain, increasing the likelihood of addiction.

Despite this, choice can play a role in long-term sobriety, similar to how lifestyle decisions (i.e. treating symptoms, exercising, eating well, etc.) play a role in the management of other chronic illnesses such as diabetes or heart disease.

2. Misconception: Addiction is a character flaw or weakness.

Fact: The idea that addiction is a moral failing is based on the moral model of addiction. The reality is that addiction has little to do with moral conviction; both inherently “good” and “bad” people are susceptible to developing a substance use disorder.

That being said, a person in active addiction may act in contrast to their values; but that doesn’t mean they’re morally flawed. The moralization of addiction and associated stigma only contribute to guilt, shame, and a decreased willingness to seek treatment.

3. Misconception: Addiction is the result of a lack of willpower (and if someone “wanted it enough,” they would quit).

Fact: Like other chronic illnesses, addiction cannot be “willed” away. Individuals with substance use disorders are not compromised in willpower or lacking in self-discipline.

“The mentality and behavior of drug addicts and alcoholics [are] wholly irrational until you understand that they are completely powerless over their addiction and unless they have structured help, they have no hope.”

Russell Brand

4. Misconception: Some people have “addictive personalities.”

Fact: The truth is that every personality “type” is prone to addiction; we’re all biologically wired for addiction since our thoughts/behaviors are influenced by the brain’s reward system. Risk factors, not personality traits, are linked to the development of a substance use disorders. Risk factors may include biological influences (including genetics and differences in brain receptors), environmental influences, age of first use, and method of use.

5. Misconception: Many people use trauma as an “excuse” for using drugs/alcohol.

Fact: There is a strong association between trauma and addiction, and research indicates that addiction is directly linked to childhood abuse and trauma. It may seem like an excuse, but substance use is oftentimes a means of survival and/or a way to cope with unthinkable atrocities.

6. Misconception: Relapse is part of the process.

Fact: While relapse is relatively common, it doesn’t have to be a part of recovery. There are many contributing factors, both biological and environmental (i.e. stressors), that increase the chances of relapse.

Successful relapse prevention plans involve the avoidance and/or management of risk factors. Also, the less severe the addiction, the more likely someone is to avoid relapse altogether.

7. Misconception: Abstinence is the only path to recovery.

Fact: Recovery is not one-size-fits-all. For some, abstinence may be the only acceptable route, but for others, a reduction in use or the use of a less harmful substance is the desired outcome.

8. Misconception: You have to attend 12-step meetings and work the steps to get sober.

Fact: While AA and NA are often part of sustained sobriety, they are not the only way to stop using drugs or alcohol. Alternative evidence-based treatments for addiction include cognitive behavioral therapy, medication, family therapy, and group therapy.

9. Misconception: You have to be “ready” to stop using in order for treatment to work.

Fact: Addiction is characterized by ambivalence (i.e. you want to get sober and at the same time, you want to get high). Motivation comes and goes. A person may enter treatment with no intention of quitting, and then undergo a significant transformation. Or, someone may feel 100% ready to stop only to later change their mind. Ambivalence is normal.

That being said, the consequences of addiction (or costs of using) are oftentimes what tip the motivational balance, leading to increased motivation.

“When you can stop, you don’t want to, and when you want to stop, you can’t.”

Luke Davies

10. Misconception: You have to want recovery for yourself before you can get sober.

Fact: External motivators (i.e. the threat of losing a job, divorce, legal consequences, etc.) frequently precipitate treatment, and motivation is then internalized during treatment.

Research indicates that success rates of mandated treatment are similar to voluntary treatment; moreover, mandatory treatment is associated with increased rates of completion.

11. Misconception: You have to hit “rock bottom” before you can recover.

Fact: Sustained sobriety can be attained without experiencing severe consequences. While the costs of using are often what motivates someone to get sober, there’s no rule that you have to “bottom out” first. This misconception can be deadly; you may die waiting (or death may be your “rock bottom”).

“Remember that just because you hit bottom doesn’t mean you have to stay there.”

Robert Downey, Jr.

12. Misconception: If you’re receiving medication-assisted treatment (MAT), you aren’t really sober.

Fact: MAT is a highly effective evidence-based treatment for opioid use disorder; it helps to sustain long-term recovery. There are also FDA-approved medications for the treatment of alcoholism. MATs effectively and safely relieve withdrawal symptoms and reduce psychological cravings.

13. Misconception: Needle exchange programs and safe injection sites enable continued use.

Fact: Harm reduction methods reduce HIV/HCV infections and decrease overdose deaths. According the the CDC, “the majority of syringe services programs (SSPs) offer referrals to medication-assisted treatment,  and new users of SSPs are five times more likely to enter drug treatment and three times more likely to stop using drugs than those who don’t use the programs.” SSPs are proven and effective, and aren’t linked to increased drug use or crime.

14. Misconception: Narcan enables continued use.

Fact: Narcan (an opioid reversal medication) enables life. It gives someone a chance for recovery.

15. Misconception: “Once an addict, always an addict.”

Fact: Having a substance use disorder increases your chances of becoming addicted to other substances, but the belief that you’ll forever be an “addict” can be counterproductive or harmful. People grow and change, and may stop viewing themselves as “addicts” when they leave the lifestyle behind.

The belief that “once an addict, always an addict” also depends on the recovery model you subscribe to; for example, AA/NA principles support the idea of the “lifelong addict,” but those who believe in other models may prefer to call themselves “ex-addicts” or simply say, “I don’t drink.”

“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.”

Carl Bard

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Interview: Substance Abuse Counseling

An interview with JS, a substance abuse counselor who works with people from all walks of life.

JS is a certified substance abuse counselor who works at a residential treatment center in northern Virginia. The following article is about his work, thoughts on relapse, what it’s like to lose a client, stigma, and valuable advice for anyone considering a career in addiction counseling.


Interview: “They Are Just People”

JS works at an intermediate-length residential center for adults with substance use and mental health disorders. The clients live in shared dorms and adhere to a daily schedule that includes counseling, psychoeducation, groups, 12-step meetings, and medication therapy.

Once a client successfully completes the inpatient portion of treatment, they transition to “re-entry.” In re-entry, clients reside in sober living homes and receive continuing care services. They are able to look for employment, start working, and “re-enter” the larger community. JS provides counseling and support services for this component.

Inspired to help

JS has personal experience with addiction. “I am a person in recovery… About a decade ago I found myself in a very dark place and had to get help… I met a substance abuse counselor [who] changed my life. He educated me, engaged me, and challenged me. He was instrumental in turning my life around.”

With his counselor’s encouragement and support, JS made the decision to get back on track. He realized that he wanted to help others who struggled. “My own experiences with addiction allow me to have an incredibly deep empathy for the clients I serve and the fulfillment I receive in return is unreal.”

“Addiction does not discriminate”

JS works with people from all walks of life. He’s worked with individuals who are homeless to young fathers to successful businessmen; from people in their teens to adults in their late 80’s. “There is no age, sex, gender, race, sexual orientation, religion, occupation, or economic class that is safe from addiction.”

As for the substances abused, the list is never ending, but JS regularly sees people addicted to alcohol, opiates (including heroin), cocaine, methamphetamine, and PCP. Many of the clients he counsels also have mental illness such as depression, anxiety, or bipolar disorder.

No typical days

According to JS, “typical” days don’t exist where he works. “There is no way to describe a typical day in this field. One day I could be [providing therapy] and another day could involve a trip to the emergency room or helping out with chores… I never know what to expect and I never get bored.”

Effective treatment planning is important for substance abuse counselors; JS meets with his clients to develop an individualized service plan. Clients come up with their own goals, and JS supplies interventions to help them achieve their goals over the next couple of months.

According to JS, client goals vary, ranging from attending 12-meetings to obtaining a driver’s license to enrolling in school; basically, a goal can be any life skill a person may need for success. Corresponding interventions could include providing bus tokens to get to AA meetings, linking to driving school, and helping to fill out college applications and apply for financial aid.

JS explained that adults who have been incarcerated or dealing drugs for a living miss out on major milestones such as learning to drive, attending college, renting an apartment, etc. Furthermore, basic skills that many of us take for granted, such as filling out an online form or depositing a check can be overwhelming for someone newly in recovery who never learned how.

JS meets with his clients at least once per week for therapy sessions. I asked what comes up in a typical session and his response was “anything and everything.” Sessions may involve reviewing goals, learning coping skills, poop jokes (his clients are all men), or processing childhood trauma.

Substance abuse and relapse

“Not good” was JS’s response when I asked what the success rate was for someone who completes re-entry. He explained that this is a reflection of the general rates of recovery in substance abuse, which are low. “It can be disheartening, working with someone for months and when they leave, they relapse in less than a week.”

JS explained that while relapse is a deterrent to the field for some counselors, he sees it differently. “For me, it will never be a deterrent. My battle with addiction was not easy, nor was it accomplished in a single attempt. Relapse is a part of my story. I would not be here if people gave up or lost hope that I could get better. For that, I will never give up or lose hope that my clients can recover, no matter how many times they relapse.”

For JS, losing a client, not relapse, is the hardest part of the job. “I’ve worked with many clients who didn’t make it. I’ve lost clients to overdose, suicide, and homicide. It never gets easier.”

JS grieves for his lost clients. “I find myself wading through the stages of grief until I reach some level of acceptance.”

What everyone needs to know about substance abuse

“The people I work with are just people. They are your sister, your cousin, your neighbor, or the guy in line at the grocery store. They are people with families, jobs, hobbies, and dreams.”

JS discussed ignorance and stigma; he shared that individuals with substance use disorders are often subjected to mistreatment, even from professionals in the field. “There are substance abuse counselors who perpetuate harmful addiction myths, once widely accepted as fact, but discredited by the scientific community decades ago.”

JS shared examples of common myths:

  • “All addicts are liars.”
  • “Addicts are lazy and selfish.”
  • “It’s not a disease, it’s a choice.”

“The lack of compassion when it comes to substance abuse is mindboggling and painful to encounter. Often, it stems from a lack of understanding or knowledge about substance abuse and those with substance use disorders. They are just people who are struggling with something far beyond their control. And those in treatment? They are just people trying to get better. And in case I didn’t make it clear; they are just people.”

Advice for new substance abuse counselors

“Be willing to learn. The field of addiction treatment is constantly changing. Standard practices from 20 years ago are now ineffective and outdated. If you want to do this work, be open to learning the newest treatment models, medications, and research on addiction. This field is not static, and we do our clients a major disservice when we quit learning.”

As a last piece of advice, JS suggested self-care for substance abuse counselors as a way to combat burnout. “Identify ways to decompress. This job is not easy. Some of the people you help will die. Compassion fatigue is a real thing and you must take care of yourself to care for others.”


“They are just people.”

JS

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